The Search for My Gaming Girl Begins
A little while ago I wrote an article about the lack of girls that are interested in gaming. To be more specific, it was about my desire that was interested in gaming and could be my friend, sorta. Lol. The first responses were guys that understood my plight. I was so happy to read the responses from girl gamers. They made themselves known and they gave me ideas of where to begin my search for my gaming girl.
Who wants to know what I’ve done since then? I have gone back and forth about how to start the search for a gaming girl using the advice that I have received. I went to a few Gamestops. That did not end as well as I would have liked. (Note to everyone: I think looking at the major malls in the area is better than the smaller stores. Of course that could just be the situation out here in Maryland.) I have not located any comic book stores. I will intensify that search. I do need to get caught up on Spider-Man. I have not searched the Internet forums for any gaming girls. I am considering it now. This search is for the good of gaming after all.
I have now decided to post a personal. My personal will be accompanied by an invitation to post what would be the perfect first date between a gaming guy and a gaming girl. You can say where we’ll go, what we’ll do, and anything else you can think of. This works well on two fronts. One, I may actually get to go on this gamer date with the nice young gaming girl that gives the blueprint for a perfect date. Two, I could just have the blueprint and eventually use it when I meet the gaming girl of my dreams. Sounds like a win for everyone involved.
This is not a competition or a contest. Then again I guess it could be. I don’t know what it is. Lol, just know that this is a first. The last time I listed what I’d like to see in my gaming girl. This time, I will tell you about myself. There is also some info in my author bio, but this will include other good info.
Ladies and Gentlemen, feel free to critique. We have to get this perfect. This is my epic search for my gaming girl after all. Ladies, I am counting on you. You all gave me hope with the last article.
This is Chris Rah Osiris, signing off. Returning to my search, but after I finish this internship.
Oh yea. Should I post a picture of myself?
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August 6th, 2008 at 12:21 PM
Hi ,theres a lot of :
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Im using IE7
August 6th, 2008 at 12:22 PM
Why it must be a gamer girl ?
I dont think that is a good idea ,BUT you are who is looking
August 6th, 2008 at 12:24 PM
IE7, oh how I hate you. Firefox 3. Forever.
August 6th, 2008 at 12:31 PM
Because it’s like a dream come true. It’s like when a married couple have the same favorite sports team.
August 6th, 2008 at 12:39 PM
chris, good look lol
i had an idea you could use, maybe you could find or create one of them dating sites but for gamers
that could help your search
August 6th, 2008 at 12:49 PM
Good idea Jack
August 6th, 2008 at 1:05 PM
do you have facebook because in one of my OPM UK mags it mentions a group on there called girls that play guitar hero and said its a good place to find gaming girls also it has a page about the “miss video game contest” there might be something on there
August 6th, 2008 at 1:12 PM
Chris,
You should go to Wal-mart or like Olan Mills at the mall and get some hilarious glamour photos taken of yourself and then post them here. It’s honestly great. We used to do that in college for Christmas cards. Do it.
August 6th, 2008 at 1:17 PM
SS,
I have interviews coming up soon too. So I’ll go get a haircut and put on my interview suit. Get a few glamor shots taken and voila. I am PSLS’ most eligible bachelor.
August 6th, 2008 at 1:21 PM
The perfect gamer date… hmmm…….
My girlfriend and I enjoy Dave and Busters (or Jilians or whatever eatery arcade there happens to be). After that if you have somewhere scenic to go and walk and talk about your jobs or interests other than games, that could work out nicely, depending on the girl. First dates are interviews anyway, so if you aren’t looking for a one night “Game Session” then I would suggest getting to know her somewhat.
Gamer girls, IMO, at least where I live, which is Kentucky (don’t laugh) LOVE to watch live rock music. It’s not very personal, but a fun date can totally over write the fact that you don’t really know each other that well. Again, this all depends on the style you choose to approach this with, if you are truly interested in finding someone worthwhile, then I don’t suggest the bar scenario.
Hope this helps in any way. PSLS semi-new recruit at your service
August 6th, 2008 at 1:26 PM
Good luck man.
August 6th, 2008 at 1:34 PM
i wish i lived in kentucky, i love rock music and in england all the girls try to be “gangstas” or chavs which we call em lol, this search your doing would be impossible in england, thats why when i go university im gonna go back up to scotland.
are you going to leipzig or any other games conferences in the future that you have a spare pass for? that would be an awesome first date
August 6th, 2008 at 1:34 PM
Might I suggest a regular girl…EX: My wife was not a gamer when I met her but now she loves watching me play and playing certain games: Guitar Hero/Rock Band.(I can’t beat her anymore) Her newest obsession is ELEFUNK. She thought MGS4 was the best game yet, and is waiting for GOW3.
August 6th, 2008 at 1:36 PM
On gametrailers theres a gaming girls section and in that section theres a video on tips that will help you make your girlfriend into a gamer and trust me there are hot gamers, for example this hot gamer, its the same person in both pictures so dont get the wrong idea
http://static.covachanetwork.com/upload/53231_44704.JPG
http://static.covachanetwork.com/upload/53231_44992.jpg
August 6th, 2008 at 1:40 PM
Hi,
Have you tried GirlGamers.co.uk ?
(A few of the members there are also registered at 1upGamers.com)
Good luck with your search.
Perhaps you should try playing “Animal Crossing”… chicks dig that, I hear
BFN,
fp.
(1upGamers.com Forums Moderator)
August 6th, 2008 at 1:53 PM
I still remember watching my now wife beat Legend of Zelda on her NES when we first got together. When it challenged her to the masters quest she took it personally. I watched her beat that as well.
We play tetris ds in bed quite often and I catch her playing Dr Mario online sometimes when I go to bed early.
Is it as awesome as it sounds. You bet your ass. I did not know however, when we got together, that she was a gamer.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:02 PM
good luck with that, i think you will find what your looking for but remember, no need to rush.
You should just find someone like my girl, she does not really play games or watch anime, but she will sit there for hours at a time and just watch me game, its amazing. She LOVES watching me play my games and poking fun at me sometimes for the losing
August 6th, 2008 at 2:20 PM
Do girls like ICO and Shadow of the colossus?
August 6th, 2008 at 2:24 PM
@Jack
Kentucky has more redneck than Rocker but there is a huge rock scene here in the Eastern US. If you want to see local rock talent in Kentucky, check out Glasspaper on You Tube, I’m the lead singer. The reason I said not to laugh is because I know most people view this State as a hillbilly backwater, no shoe wearing, dip chewing, cousin screwin’, society. That’s somewhat the case in parts, but there is a really cool college scene here as well.
In seeing some of the other posts, I have to agree that getting a girl used to gaming is also an option. PixelJunk Monsters is a 2p co-op game that me and my girl play nightly for an hour or so. She also likes eden and calling all cars. PSN games seem to really do it for her and her freinds. Get your girl a DS. It’s eases them into gaming with easy to learn applications and works them into harder fare.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:25 PM
I hate Anime and games for the wide audience.I like brutal bloody hardcore games like God of war and I like to play alone.My favourite band is disturbed.God of war and disturbed goes well with my character and my lone wolf mentality.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:26 PM
And I am one of the best artist in my land.sorry for my english.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:27 PM
upps..one of the best.The best I meant.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:29 PM
good luck sev1512
August 6th, 2008 at 2:30 PM
I turned my girlfriend into at least a lite gamer. But she now understands my gaming obsession better. Hint PSP and DS are good gifts for the lady! She may never play RFoM2 or MGS4 but there are plenty of other games we enjoy together now. She is dieing to play Buzz! and Little Big Planet.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:30 PM
upps..I meant chris rah osiris good luck.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:35 PM
im up for whatever
i could get a breast job if that would help
August 6th, 2008 at 2:42 PM
I play with my father and my mother.Killzone 2, resistance 2,oh and resident evil 5.So shut up.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:46 PM
I was able to get one of my old girlfriends to play through the entire Co-Op campaign for Resistance Fall of Man. I also heard from an old High School teacher of mine that he and his wife beat Halo 3 on the legendary difficulty… TOGETHER.
They are out there!
August 6th, 2008 at 2:48 PM
real kratos talks only bs.Because i am the real kratos(in my dream).
I own you and you little dog too.Come on lets make war you fanboys.1…2…3…4…5…is the countdown.You are only nerds like me.I dont care what you are talking about(sorry for my english im african).
August 6th, 2008 at 2:54 PM
Oh wait i hate resident evil 5 cause im african.I dont want to see how chris redfield kills my uncles+my family.I show you chris face in the water.Where my crocodile(my dog)eat him.Better the continue to make resident evil films and no more games cause they are totally bs,look at the AI from re5 it looks like the re4 AI haha this fools.They are boring as hell and no scarry!BS is scarrier.Dont tallk me about your girlfriends i dont care who your girlfriends are(they should drink milk from ill cows and die)!
August 6th, 2008 at 2:56 PM
leave wardevil alone he must be mad.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:56 PM
this guy is mad.haha he made my laugh.
August 6th, 2008 at 2:57 PM
I meant me
August 6th, 2008 at 2:57 PM
haha cant stop to laugh.
August 6th, 2008 at 3:10 PM
u should go to playstation forums and go to warhawk forums and use the search bar and type warhawkers post yo pictures
August 6th, 2008 at 3:11 PM
you should go to warhawk forums and use the search bar and type warhawkers post yo pictures
August 6th, 2008 at 3:33 PM
Girls are educated different from Boys, this is why she doens’t like games
August 6th, 2008 at 3:43 PM
Where did all of these commenters come from?
Anyway, Glasspaper, as lead singer you should write and perform a quick PSLS theme song. It could be used at the beginning of a future podcast, once we figure that out.
August 6th, 2008 at 3:45 PM
Girls loove games, mind games, sex games, emotional games which I guess could tie to mind games a bit. oh wait… video games, well take it from me Gamestops are the worst place to look, I work at an EB games in california, I see more creatures that crawled from a cave then I see humans. So I know your strife oh to well i’m currently trying to find that gamer girl also :/
August 6th, 2008 at 3:50 PM
Stalking, that’s not bad, you should send an idea of what instruments you may like and the mood you want to try to set for you casts to my E-mail (I’m sure you can get it, as it’s required to post. I could work up three or four segments and see if any fit your ideal.
By mood, I mean do you want it dark, bright and cheerful. Do you want a jingle, something catchy, or do you want a personalized message? You get my drift. Send me an Idea, and I’ll record it (I own my mini all digital studio).
August 6th, 2008 at 3:54 PM
Or I will just send you my E’mail through N4g if you prefer. I’m pornlord on there
Either way, just let me know. Can you send personal messages on this site? I haven’t dabbled much in that area as of yet.
August 6th, 2008 at 3:55 PM
@Glasspaper,
We’ll stick to the topic here for now, but you can shoot Sev1512@playstationlifestyle.net an email about it. He calls the shots. I think it’d be nice and get your band some exposure.
August 6th, 2008 at 4:22 PM
Moderated by Sev1512:
Final Warning, you will be banned
August 6th, 2008 at 4:26 PM
come on bann me,come on…when the heart is cold theres no hope for you.
August 6th, 2008 at 4:38 PM
Your wish is my command. Feel the wrath of my ban hammer!!!
Cmon guys, we don’t want to ban people, but comments like the one I had to moderate saying things like “die,die,die” with excessive cursing, etc have to be banned.
Please have some respect for the other readers please.
August 6th, 2008 at 5:02 PM
Yeah, just so lame & weird.
Anyway, Sev, what are your thoughs on Glasspaper’s music discussion?
August 6th, 2008 at 5:10 PM
@ SS,
I think its a wonderful idea, I would love to have Glasspaper do something for us.
Its also a great way to get some exposure for the band. Which I am more than happy to help with.
@ Glasspaper,
please email me at sev1512@playstationlifestyle.net
and we will start discussing things.
When its all said and done, I will make a post here on the blog, announcing the new PSLS theme song, as well as plugging your band, and any venues you might be performing.
PlayStation LifeStyle’s most important feature is our friendly community, so as you can see it would be our pleasure to give back to our readers.
I also suggest you join our forums, link in the upper right hand corner of the main page.
August 6th, 2008 at 5:17 PM
Rofl..
funny comments indeed.
Anyways good luck chris
August 6th, 2008 at 5:41 PM
@ sev
I will gladly support this website any way I can, and would love the support in return. I will contact you when I am not at work (which I am now) to discuss this further.
On topic
Lot’s of good ideas have been shared here, I wish you the best in finding someone to hang out with. IMO that is where it has to start with a gamer girl. Where to find one? I’m not sure on that one. Finding anyone is luck based anyway and there are porn stars who are gamers, although I wouldn’t recommend going to a brothel to try to find a good gamer girl. Making points through dirty anologies can be fun!!! Have you tried to find a good girl in Japan??
August 6th, 2008 at 6:12 PM
I’m out of luck even with non gaming girls. I’ve about given up.
August 6th, 2008 at 6:56 PM
@ glasspaper
hey i listened to your stuff a its great, how long you guys been going for? me and my mates have been starting a band for about a year and still haven’t gotten round to it
August 6th, 2008 at 7:23 PM
@Jack
I already been fussed on once for being off topic
No, but I met my girl at a show a year ago. She didn’t want to be there, but she seemed to really enjoy my band, then BOOM. We hooked up and luckily she is a gamer chick now. I have been in a band for 8 years. This one for about 2 years now. Took that whole time to write about 5 songs. I had 7 songs from my previous band attempts. This is the last one though. If this tanks, I’m going solo most likely.
On topic again. I still think meeting a girl in a bar is a bad place to meet one that will last. My girl hasn’t been back to the bar since we met other than my shows.
August 6th, 2008 at 7:36 PM
cool, what do you mean by solo? cos its a huge difference going from a rock band to the mainstream solo artists
also chris, a good place to meet a girl could be at leipzig if your going or another games con
August 6th, 2008 at 8:14 PM
@jack
Solo as in trying something new. I’m not really all that mainstream, so I would have to go against the grain acoustic with maybe a cello player that travels with me and a bassists… Who knows? Maybe just no drums is probably what I’d end up doing. Make it a classical feel with a dark message.
@chris :That’s another thing I didn’t even think about. Some of the best dates I’ve been on were when I travelled to New York and saw plays. You say you are not that far from there, and they have really good plays. If you are one of those artsy fartsy types, which I am. Gamer girls I think would tend to be as well. Gaming is an art form, and I think that some girls appreciate that as much as anything else.
August 7th, 2008 at 11:37 AM
@Chris SS hit it right on the money with the glamour shots for your pics. I think making a video blog would be a great idea . I’m guessing the girls out there that are real gaming chicks, are also the kind of girl that are into posting viedos on youtube and etc. You could have a dating game show using webcams! Forget the comic book stores and plays in new york. I believe the girl your looking for is on the net. This will take a lot of effort and time. (especially if she has to meet your requirements from your 1st post)